Driving is one of the few things we do in modern life that is 100% guaranteed to bring out the worst in all of us. At one point or another, we all snap. It’s right up there with listening to mumble rap or actively learning vape tricks. One day you take a look at yourself in the mirror and don’t recognise what you’ve become. A monster.
Tempers flare behind the wheel? Why? Because most people are idiots and shouldn’t be allowed to operate motor vehicles. At least, that’s what we all like to tell ourselves. It’s gotten to the point that some of us even get road rage when operating a supermarket trolley, or standing in line or even just walking.It’s true. Two years ago, a mall in Britain added Slow and Fast lanes after receiving complaints about sluggish walkers.
The truth is that there are a variety of problems at fault. Many people carry daily stress around with them, with no effective means of dealing with their frustrations, or letting it out.
It doesn’t matter whether you’re a man or a woman, and it doesn’t matter where you live. When driving under high-pressure conditions, such as peak traffic, there are so many external factors just piling on and piling on that any among us could eventually break down and explode.
Congestion. The weather. Roadworks or repairs. Ineffective policing. Discourtesy from other drivers. A barrage of distractions such as chatty passengers, crying children and ringing phones. Fatigue. The constant gnawing of work stress. Time lost – time that you’ll never get back.
So, it’s little wonder that we encounter so many irate motorists on our roads. How do they all vent their frustrations?
This is but one of the many ways in which South Africans choose to vent their frustrations – at other road users.
In the results of a Wheels24 poll, 43% of drivers admitted to swearing often while driving, 26% admitted to swearing almost constantly, 24% admitted to swearing only on a particularly bad day and just 7% have admitted to possessing Buddhist Monk-type levels of self-restraint.
You don’t really know how to swear until you know how to drive.
Furthermore, earlier this month, OnePoll published a study (commissioned by Hyundai) revealing that the average South African driver swears 41 times for every 160km travelled – or around 152 times a month.
Cape Town, Johannesburg and Durban drivers, of course, scoff at such trifling numbers, and could probably rack up thousands of Tarantino-level expletives within a single city block.
The study revealed that almost half of all drivers swear most while behind the wheel and are prone to losing their cool, while also revealing that most of us don’t even feel bad about it afterwards. The top causes for swearing, shouting and insulting other drivers were listed as:
On the results of the study, Hyundai said:
We spoke to Karen van Zyl from the Anger & Stress Management Centre. According to van Zyl, an adrenaline release triggers the fight or flight instinct within when we feel that somebody has done something unacceptable on the road. It often happens quickly and unexpectedly.
We, as human beings, default into ‘tit-for-tat’ behaviour. For instance; if you change lanes in the middle of a turn, I might feel obligated to run you off the road and into a ditch. “We need to be constantly aware of our tolerance level,” says van Zyl. If you’re going to snap at every single person for every little thing, sooner or later you may get hurt or end up in trouble with the law. Here are some things to remember when you feel the rage building up:
Road rage is the expression of the amateur sociopath in all of us, cured by running into a professional. Somebody said that once.
So, you’re halfway home when you realize that you’ve legit zoned out and haven’t been paying attention at all. How are you alive? How do you have a licence? There’s a Toyota Hilux with a Free State licence plate behind you, laying on the horn. And then, the driver gets out of the car.
People can be very unpredictable. “Rule of thumb is safety first,” says van Zyl.
Best tip of all? Be a courteous driver. Do not tailgate, do not block the passing lane and do not allow your own anger to get the better of you. Out there, good manners can save your life.